How to play
This game is offered by ChakraDuo. It is free, needs no sign-up, and is played on a single phone in about 3 minutes.
- Choose "Together" or "Solo" and enter your first names if you like.
- In each scene, one person picks in secret what would mean the most to them. The other looks away from the screen.
- Pass the phone: the other person guesses what was chosen.
- Reveal the answer, then move on to the next scene. Roles switch with every scene.
- At the end, each of you sees your favorite ways of loving, a gesture to try this week and your connection score, ready to share as an image.
In solo mode, you simply pick what makes you feel loved in each scene, then discover your results and a sentence to share with your partner.
The five ways of loving in the game
The game is inspired by Gary Chapman's 5 love languages. Each way of loving is linked to a chakra, in our own reading:
- Words: a specific compliment, a sincere thank you. Throat chakra.
- Quality time: full presence, phone away. Heart chakra.
- Thoughtful gestures: a small gift that proves you were thinking of the other. Third eye.
- Acts of service: lightening the daily load without being asked. Root chakra.
- Touch: a hug, a held hand, a soothing presence. Sacral chakra.
To understand each language in detail and what research says about it, read our article on the 5 love languages.
Frequently asked questions
Is this game a real love language test?
It is a playful test, not a scientific questionnaire. It gives you a clear idea of your preferences and opens the conversation. Recent studies show that everyone needs all five ways of loving: your results show where to start, not which box you belong in.
Can I play alone?
Yes. Solo mode lets you pick, in each scene, what makes you feel most loved. You get your favorite ways of loving and a simple sentence to share with your partner.
Do we need two phones?
No, one is enough. You pass it back and forth at each scene, and the choices stay hidden.
Are my answers saved?
No. The game runs entirely on your phone: nothing is sent or stored, and no sign-up is needed.
How long does a game take?
About 3 minutes for the ten scenes. You can play again as often as you like: the order of scenes and answers changes every time.